For the first time in more than a decade, Helena High School graduates might not wear gender-specific caps and gowns to their commencement ceremony this year.
At every Helena High commencement since at least 2007, most girls have worn white and most boys have worn burgundy caps and gowns as they received their diplomas.
But a handful of student leaders and other members of the Helena High Class of 2019 hope to see that change, according to school district Superintendent Tyler Ream.
Noting that society is becoming increasingly divided over a variety of issues ranging from religion to politics to sexual orientation, Ream said the students are pushing for all Helena High graduates to wear the same color at their commencement to send the message that “we are one.”
“When kids bring forward ideas to consider, it’s our responsibility to give them the consideration they deserve,” Ream said. “ … I applaud our students for raising this. They see a lot of divisions in our world, and they see those divisions as being hurtful.”
All Helena High graduates wore burgundy caps and gowns as far back as 1998, Ream said, but there may have been a time when the two colors were alternated.
Helena High Principal Steve Thennis aims to meet with every member of the senior class to discuss the possibility of returning to a single color, said Ream, who will have the final say on any decisions that are made.
“We don’t have a definitive timeline on the decision as we are focusing on the student discussions at this point,” Ream said.
Officials have not yet decided what color the graduates would wear if the change is made, Ream said. Though some families have already ordered caps and gowns, he said, “We are also working with the grad robe vendor to explore what options may be available.”
“If the decision is made, we’d have to work very closely with Jostens to make sure families aren’t bearing the burden of this by any means,” he said. “That wouldn’t be acceptable to me.”
The proposal to return to a single color has received a mixed response from students, parents and others in the community.
Debbie Benton, a parent of a Helena High senior, sees the proposed change as an attempt to force pro-transgender views on nontransgender students.
“It’s totally wrong, in my opinion. I feel like that’s forcing them to go that direction to conform to what they’re doing, and that’s not OK,” she said. “ … I think that these kids that have worked so hard to graduate should be able to wear the color that was intended.”
Helena High senior Savanah Mook said students should be able to choose whether to wear burgundy or white, and it would be unfair to force all of them to wear the same color. The parents of some Helena High seniors wore burgundy or white when they graduated from the school years ago, she said, and "keeping tradition alive in our family and our community is important."
For fellow senior Evan Rankin, the sea of burgundy and white is "the classic picture of a Helena High graduation." He said he does not believe officials are listening to students who have suggested other ways to maintain that tradition without involving gender, such as alternating the two colors among individual graduates or rows of students.
"The students provided many alternatives to try to preserve our unique graduation ceremony, but our voices were not heard," Rankin said.
Helena High senior Grace Lawlor, who is in favor of a single color, said she believes it's time to start a new tradition at Helena High.
“For some students Helena High is the only place they feel safe expressing who they are. As classmates we should be supporting each other and doing our best to allow people to feel comfortable with themselves on graduation day,” she said. “Our administration is making a very progressive decision that is right in line with the changing times of our country."
Helena High senior Regan Read said some students do not fall under either the male or female gender category, and "there are immediate and serious consequences to segregating students by gender."
"There are transgender students in this building who would have been forced to wear the wrong color, which, while not being by a long shot the worst thing trans students have to face at this school, is still a degrading and unfair reminder of their place in the world," Read said. "Even if there were transgender students who would have been allowed to pick the right color, merely being in that situation forcibly outs them to potentially abusive students, faculty and families."
The American Civil Liberties Union of Montana "fully supports the student-led effort at Helena High School to eliminate gender-specific graduation gowns," said Executive Director Caitlin Borgmann.
“Every student has the right to learn in a safe and accepting school environment. Creating gender inclusive atmospheres in our schools is an important step to ensure that all students can live openly and thrive as their authentic selves," Borgmann said.
Since the request for a single color came from Helena High, Ream said, officials are not considering any changes to the caps and gowns worn by Capital High School’s graduates. Most girls wear yellow and most boys wear brown caps and gowns at the Capital High commencement.
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Clay Baiker, you know the reason the Kids do good in Universities and Colleges they have lowered their requirements for admission in an attempt to stay in business…!
Last year Chief Justice Mike McGrath of Montana’s Supreme Court went over to Missoula to try get the University to lower the standards for Graduating Attorneys at MSU…!
The last thing we need is more stupid Attorneys…!
Snark about some of the writing here aside, here's one teacher's perspective.
I have been at HHS since 2001. In that time, we've gone from having all of the students in one color gown to having two colors based on gender. In the history of the school, it's hardly been tradition to do one or the other. We've done both. And in both cases, the students all still received their diplomas.
There is a good reason not to have the students in two colors, though. Some students simply will not be represented by a binary that says white is for girls, red is for boys. There are students at HHS (and almost every school in the country) who do not fit that binary. Some students would not be safe with their families and peers wearing the color they'd prefer, if they even prefer one.
While they're not the only students affected by this issue, transgender students face unique harm. They are far more often the targets of hate crimes and family abuse than other members of our community. They face stigmatization, harassment, and abuse, leading to higher rates of depression, and even suicide.
I can't understand how the value of a ten-year old "tradition" that has no real meaning outweighs the need to make sure that all our students feel safe and respected.
This is a time when we should listen to those who are most vulnerable, to those who are most likely to face harm and not wait until the majority decides these kids deserve our respect and care.
I'm open to discussion, but I have a hard time imagining how someone can convince me that having students wear a single color would harm anyone. And I know that the binary color choice will harm some students.
Is fighting for a mythical "tradition" that's not even as old as this year's graduates really worth the harm some of these comments have generated?
Let's just do what's right for all of our kids.
To put Dan Antonick's comments below in a context, on another thread he told us:
"The United States of America was founded by Christian people on Christian principles, if you don’t believe it’s founded on Christian values you should leave NOW…." (source)
Then there are these gems:
"This is a minor problem in our schools, what’s a major problem you ask, SEX EDUCATION in our Public Schools…!" (source)
"Ever since the “DRAFT” was eliminated in this Country, Universities and Colleges have been having enrollment difficulties...We have to reintroduce the DRAFT to fix the enrollment problem..." (source)
"Re-wright history again until people all agree on it, disregarding the awful things that the Indians did to the homesteaders in the process...Who did the Indians take away the land from...?" (source)
"The only reason some young people went on to a higher learning institution was to avoid the DRAFT, others left to Canada or other countries if they could afford too…They rarely used “multiple deferments to get out of the DRAFT”, I believe all should serve in some capacity… As TRUMP did as President of this country…
If you don’t believe in our Country you should leave…!" (source)
"Elliot, ever since the GAY community passed the SEX-ED in Helena Public School’s our children have been damaged far more than most folks realize…" (source)
Clay, I'm glad your taken notes... As a teacher you know the problem is what they're doing in our Public School's...
Yikes. Did you spend any time in a public school?
"your taken" manages to be wrong twice in two words, and I don't even know what to do with "Public School's" which manages three errors in two words.
Just something to consider before you weigh in on education issues.
Donald, the answer to your question is yes... I am quite familiar with failure our educational system...
Dan Antonick said "As a teacher you know the problem is what they're doing in our Public School's..."
Dan, why not answer what I said below? Here it is again:
"If the schools are doing such a poor job, how do you explain all the students who do extremely well and go on to success in major universities and come back as our doctors, lawyers, accountants, business leaders, etc?"
So-called deflection is only OK for "Clay". He prohibits it for anyone else
Why is the “Suicide” rate so high in Helena High is it related to what their teaching our kids in that public school…?
The HPD should check into this and other Law Enforcement Agencies, this must be investigated it is a serious problem with Helena High and probably related to gender problem that this Public School is having with the graduating class…!
Really? this is such a non-issue. Please, lets move on.
Clay, what’s wrong with the color anyway...? Our PUBLIC SCHOOLS have created the problems for our KIDS to begin with…!
I’m tired of the what their teaching our kids to begin with, I’ve got a grandson that’s graduating with not even enough credits to go to college in the State of Montana, let alone to some other State where entrance requirements are higher…!
It’s wrong to pay them more money for not doing their job…!
The Socialism and SEX ED being thought in our Public Schools has to end before it’s too late, what’s wrong with our Public Schools, have teachers lost their minds…!
Don't blame the school.
Bill, says “Don't blame the school” that’s what our Public Schools relying on is stupid parents that are too stupid to know anything that schools are teaching our children…!
Parents are relying on Public Schools to teach our kids what is needed to survive in today’s world, not teaching them who they really are “Teachers are not trained, nor are they qualified in this area to open even to open a discussion in this area” contrary to the Office of Public Instruction (OPI) and Helena Public Schools notion…!
Dan Antonick said "...that’s what our Public Schools relying on is stupid parents that are too stupid to know anything that schools are teaching our children…!"
So, your are say that the problem is "stupid parents?"
You said "Parents are relying on Public Schools to teach our kids what is needed to survive in today’s world..."
And they do a fine job. Not all students are losers like your grandson.
If the schools are doing such a poor job, how do you explain all the students who do extremely well and go on to success in major universities and come back as our doctors, lawyers, accountants, business leaders, etc?
Parents and their kids are responsible in making certain they graduate via the curriculum offered. The school counselors inform the students and parents if their kids are not on schedule to graduate. Kids that graduate from a public school qualify to apply for any school as they have acquired the necessary credits. The high schools are all accredited. The college and universities then make a decision based on their admission standards, ( GPA, ACT, SAT) etc., if that person qualifies for the school. If they don’t, thru can go to a community college and improve their status . You can’t blame a school if a kid does not apply themselves or their parents are too lazy to ensure their kids work hard so they graduate with a decent GPA. High School is very easy. Like my father once told me years ago, “ any assh*** can get a C.”
Bill, exactly so. And you know what's really a shame, according to MHSA rules for eligibility to play sports, a student only has to have a 0.9 GPA to play. If school sports are supposed to be such an incentive, why not raise that to a 3.0? Oh, wait, there goes the football and wrestling programs....
Maybe his family should have checked his credit total. You know, to avoid the danger of SOCIALISM.
Donald, you know the Public Schools think parents are stupid, they do not want their input on anything…
They know better than parents what is good for their child…! A kid brings home good grades and how is the parent too know his child isn’t getting what he or she’s needs for going out into the world…?
Well, the school does cleverly hides the college readiness standards on its web site and its registration guidebooks. :)
Dan Antonick said ""I’m tired of the what their[sic] teaching our kids to begin with........The Socialism and SEX ED being thought[sic] in our Public Schools has to end before it’s too late..."
and
"I’ve got a grandson that’s graduating with not even enough credits to go to college in the State of Montana..."
It appears that the grandson's problem may be hereditary.
Crazy Mom said "I think that these kids that have worked so hard to graduate should be able to wear the color that was intended."
Did the school announce when these kids were freshman what color their gown would be? I think not.
Crazy Mom sees the proposed change as an attempt to force pro-transgender views on nontransgender students.'
The gowns aren't rainbowed so that's not really the case.
Face it, folks, the is a prime example of a First World Problem.
I graduated in 1961. Boys wore burgundy robes, girls wore white The school owned the robes and lent them to us to wear. They were good quality robes, I think made of gabardine, good enough that they could be worn many times over.
I can’t believe this is a front page headline. There are countless issuing facing our teens: drugs, alcohol, vaping, suicide, etc. etc, valuable time is really going to be spent talking to EVERY senior about this issue. WOW. In my day we would have been sent back to class and told to study. At what point does someone say no and we move on to more important issues.
"Debbie Benton, a parent of a Helena High senior, sees the proposed change as an attempt to force pro-transgender views on non-transgender students."
What? So are team sports inherently an attack on traditional gender roles by the non-transgenderistan armies? My god, are military uniforms an attack? What if my wife puts on my flannel shirt?
It's a gown people - a gown. Let me try again... A GOWN. Can we at least save the outrage and madness for something more substantial?
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